My (27F) husband (32M) is now avoiding me because he doesn’t like how I parent what should I do?

2022.01.20 19:46 thenamemustbe1234 My (27F) husband (32M) is now avoiding me because he doesn’t like how I parent what should I do?

Me and my husband has two kids.
A 6 year old boy I had before I met my current partner, but he views him as his own and has been in his life since he was 2 and a 3 year old son we share together.
Most of our fights are about that he thinks I am too gentle with the oldest and I think he is too strict.
Like tonight. I was putting the oldest one to bed. Reading and hugged good night and went out. Husband closed the door as we were sitting on the other side. My son starts to cry. My husband is like “no it is bedtime good night”, I go in give a hug good night and tell him that we are right there and he has to sleep now and leave the door slightly open and after that he fell asleep no problem.
My husband then sounds angry at me, why is he scared today he wasn’t scared yesterday. I say it is kids.
He doesn’t talk to me now, we were supposed to find a couch together and he just seems moody, he is clearly angry I didn’t let him handle it.
I am sad that he is ignoring me, angry that he would just let a kid cry and frustrated because it is the same fight over and over and I am not giving in.
Sometimes he is more gentle, I don’t know why the sudden switch tonight. But he is not like thatwith our youngest, he let him get away with more and me as well if I meddle between him and our youngest.
So now I am here being ignored because I went against his parenting. I am pissed, how do other couples cope when one is gentle parenting and the other is not?
He grew up in another culture than me, was spanked and his sisters spank their kids. We don’t do that, but we are so far from each other in our views at times.
Tl;dr: me and my husband disagree about parenting. Today I stepped in and did something he doesn’t like now he is clearly angry and just avoiding me. I don’t know how to deal with it?
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2022.01.20 19:46 May-o-mays Accidental discovery

I said goodbye to the man who I deem to be the love of my life this January 6 and I said something like "I am no longer good for you because I have become toxic". I felt the need to say goodbye to him because I intuitively feel him waiting for me to get better from my psychosis and build the life I promised to have with him. I felt as if he understood this and understood that I'm severing ties with him in terms of a relationship (but we are not dating).
I fell in love with him June 2019 but only communicated with him February 2020 and (take note) it was mercury retrograde.
Jan 9, 2022, I felt the veil getting thinner and I felt a presence from another dimensions (I think it's the spirit world), after months of battling with psychosis, my mind, body, and soul is finally in harmony and congruence after months, I was at peace.
I have also been getting flashes of my musings, sentiments, memories and feelings for him vividly, and the one sending me these downloads felt like my very own spirit, she knows these things matter to me and that I cherish and hold them dear.
The very next day, January 10 (take note this happened during mercury retrograde again), I then suddenly remembered that one time an entity messed with my crown chakra while I'm asleep back in September 2021 (I felt something cold inches away from my crown when I was asleep and felt the presence of an entity manipulating it, it feels like a 'baphomet' entity), I have already been battling with psychosis months before it even happened.
(still January 10) I then looked up on YouTube 12 chakra healing meditation music, it backfired on me and it closed my chakras instead of opening it (I can tell because after listening to it, my psychosis disappeared yet I started to see a familiar spirit (the ones told on the bible) in my dreams after and saw this man that I used to be infatuated with before and its been a long time since I've thought of this man, I also dreamt of something incest/lewd, and then dreamt of packs of worms coming out of a person's body in a hospital bed)
I then recognized the feelings for him was gone and that I felt lifeless and cold. I used to literally feel the thinness of the veil before but when I listened to the chakra music the atmosphere changed, and I felt that my vibration lowered, it also threw off my energy and my memory (be careful of meditations and chakra music online, they are not all benevolent), the most disappointing part is that my downloads of my recollection of my feelings for him (the ones given to my by my spirit) as well disappeared.
So I tried making my own subliminal today, it consists of the words 'gratitude', "love', and 'appreciation'. Words I associate with him and our connection, specially 'gratitude', I even included his full birth name on my subliminal. I literally thank life for him every day.
I then found an old picture of him on my Twitter and it made me remember again how dear he was to me but above all else, how much I disappointed and hurt him and pushed him away because of my circumstances (I was battling with psychosis for months).
I then find myself moments later, gushing about him like a 13 year old, it was the effect of the subliminal I made for myself, and it made me really feel lusty and feel like in a hypnotized state. I imagine myself performing in front of a lot of people and he happens to be watching and I am giggling and covering my face between intervals of my performance like an idiot because the song lyrics happens to be about and directed to him and I also accidentally discovered something about myself which is, I am still not that mature when it comes to relationships.
I discovered that I am a 'shy' lover and that my subconscious and self has the wrong idea of love. My self/ego's idea of love is superficial (high school level type of superficial) instead of spiritually based.
I no longer like how my head is painting him, I do regret what I did. I am sorry.
I don't know if it's the set of words I used in my own subliminal, but my subconscious recognized it early and now I can say that it is slowly wearing off.
Anyone who can do spellwork or can pray powerfully, please help me. I need my feelings back for my person before I did something stupid and listened to the chakra music.
It wasn't just superficial whatever I felt for him. It was gratitude, it was unconditional love, soul recognition, and loving acceptance altogether, it was transcendental love.
He is my catalyst with my spiritual ascension and the reason why my vibration raised for the past 2 years. Since September 2021, I see/hear his name 3 times a day everywhere (sometimes 5). Even today I saw his name twice.
I am asking all of you kindred souls, if anyone would like to help me have my feelings for him back, the courage I had to love him fearlessly, and the musings and sentiments of him that was flashing back to me back in January 9 (my spirit knows I was about to do something stupid so it was trying to make me remember everything I am about to regret losing which was my musings and feelings for him). I am not and never will be done loving him, he is the true love of my life.
Even just a 15 seconds prayer would help, if also you can channel the source (I tried it myself it's ineffective). I don't expect anything from his part, however I would love to have all my feelings back for him (the feelings I'm referring to that was flashing in my memory back in January 9).
May I contain back all the sacred gifts that the universe and this life provided for me through him in this life. I cherish them so much and hold on to them dearly. I love him beyond words.
I am content with loving him from afar, however I am also going to accept whatever best possible outcome life and the universe wants regarding this connection.
I am humbly asking all of you, who happens to be reading this, to bless me regarding my request in whatever way you could. I will appreciate it forever.
Please 😔🙏
Thank you in advance.
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