My LDR is taking a toll on me and I don't know what to do

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2021.10.21 05:45 baizhusrevenge My LDR is taking a toll on me and I don't know what to do

Few things first- I made this acc because a friend said I should. I've lurked this sub before on instagram but never posted. English is not my first language also I have dyslexia so Im sorry in advance.

About a year and a half ago I(23m) entered an online relationship with someone who we will call Ayla(22F) I met through Instagram. We connected pretty quickly and after a few months of friendships we told eachother our feeling. They were mutual so we began dating.
Things were great for the first year they really were. She helped me through the covid sadness and things like that. The thing is now that restrictions are lifted in my country I've been really wanting to see her. She says no. Shes too self conscious she says. I always reassure her saying she beautiful but she is scared. She lives around 2 hour plane ride away and I even offered to pay for ticket if money was an issue. I even offer to drive there or I plane ride if she is too afraid of planes (her original excuse was that she was too scared to fly)
AT first I was worried she catfish me since she was so hesitant. I talked to her about this and she FT me to rid my anxiety. We call all the time just never facetimed because she was so anxiety. SHe is beautiful even without snapchat filters as she always says shes not. I saw her briefly on facetime she is who she says but shes too afraid?
Today it came to a head when we were playing a game together. We joked we were on a date in the game and I said I wished we could in real life.. and she said verbatim "Im sure that won't happen for a very long time so we have this for now" her saying that made me tear up and i had to mute myself in the call because I started crying.
This isnt the first time something similar like this has happened either. She acts like we won't meet forever and it makes me so sad. I am an extrovert and my love language is touch. I am not good with words and I want to hold her and show her how much I love her in person. It hurts now everytime we talk. Its difficult to listen to her voice because I just get reminded of it.
I dont know what to do. When I try talking to her she just shuts it down now. Doesn't even give me a chance to make offers.

My friends say I should break up with her but I feel like thats too far. I really love her but they say I'm wasting my time. I Don't know what else there is to do. Am I the one in the wrong here? Maybe I am pushing her too much but deep down I feel like its not just insecurity keeping her from seeing me. I dont know anymore I really need help. Does anyone have any advice one this subject?

TLDR: my long distance gf refuses to see me and says its because of the way she looks. Its making me sad to even talk to her because I just want her here with me
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2021.10.21 05:45 Udy_Kumra (Review) The funniest fantasy book you've never even heard of: A Night of Blacker Darkness by Dan Wells

I'm here to yell at all of you people on Reddit to read this damn underrated as hell book, so let's get into it.
Quick note: This book is available on Kindle Unlimited and seemingly Audible Plus!
Preface A lot of people here have likely heard of Dan Wells, but most have probably not read his books. He is the college best friend of famous author Brandon Sanderson, co-host of Writing Excuses along with Sanderson, Howard Tayler, and Mary Robinette Kowal, and is friends with a myriad of other authors. Brandon also now has a podcast with Dan, and frequently discusses Dan in his writing lectures and livestreams.
People who have read Dan's books have probably only read his John Cleaver series, a YA supernatural horrodark fantasy series, the one that Dan debuted with and which is still, to this day, his most popular series. Part of why Dan has never broken into the mainstream is because Dan refuses to write to genre trends; he instead writes what he is interested in. He has since written a YA dystopian series, a YA cyberpunk series, a middle grade sci-fi trilogy, some standalone horror novels, and the only ttRPG tie-in work of fiction to ever win a Hugo Award—plus, he has written A Night of Blacker Darkness.
This preface is important, because you have to know going in that any Dan Wells standalone or series is going to be a pretty unique experience. Sometimes it will feel like stuff you have read before, but will have a unique twist to it. Other times it will be completely, bewilderingly different.
And sometimes you'll pick up a book like A Night of Blacker Darkness and wonder what kind of mind can come up with something so weird, so strange, so bizarre, so absolutely puzzlingly unique, and make it work so damn well.
A Night of Blacker Darkness A Night of Blacker Darkness is set in 1817 England and follows Frederick Withers, a man who desperately wishes to commit the crime he was wrongfully imprisoned for, defrauding a bank out of a vast inheritance. To do this, he must first fake his death to escape, but as he rises out of a grave, he is confronted by a band of vampires who think that he is a vampire just like them. And when he presents none of the traditional vampire weaknesses, they claim that he is their Chosen One and vow to serve him.
Thus begins a hilarious horror comedy where Withers works tirelessly to secure his fortune while being followed around by his vampire subjects, chased by angry mobs and vampire hunters, all while evading the police and just trying to get his damn money. I can't say too much more about the plot, because honestly anything I could say would be spoilers, but I can say that there are some amazing writers from the period who make cameos: John Keats (romantic poet), Mary Shelley (author of Frankenstein), and Jane Austen (author of Emma and others) all appear in various capacities throughout the book, and they are amazing. Mary Shelley in particular is probably my favorite character in the book, which is just weird.
Review A few things I have to say about just the construction of the book. First, Dan absolutely nails a perfect balance for the first-person narration between an archaic-ish voice that would sound old but keeping it modern enough that it is not jarring and difficult to read. In fact the prose flows very smoothly, with some clever turns of phrase and some pretty writing without ever getting pretentious—something that Dan is pretty talented at in all of his books.
Second, the plot of this book is fantastic. Dan is a story structure nerd, and his books are ones where the pacing moves so smoothly and every plot beat hits because he has structured the story very well to feel like it is moving naturally while moving exactly how it needs to to get maximum investment out of the audience. Some of his books, the construction is more obvious, like in his cyberpunk, while in others it is less so, like in his John Cleaver books; here, he strikes the perfect balance. As a result, the story feels fast-paced, and there is always a lot happening, but it never feels overly chaotic and too complicated to follow. You always know what is going on even as a lot of it is happening at once.
Third, this book is actually funny. I have read a lot of purportedly funny books where I thought the humor was just okay, but Dan has written a genuinely funny book here (I have checked with friends who have all different sorts of senses of humor and they all found the excerpts I shared funny so I feel confident in this assertion). Part of what he does is that he has written in multiple different forms of humor. There are quips, yes, but there are also ridiculous situations, exaggerated reactions, and most of all, character-driven humor, which is the best kind of humor because it feels so damn natural. Dan is able to utilize his skill with character here to the utmost: these characters are so ridiculous that they are hilarious, but they somehow also feel grounded and real so as not to stray into sitcom territory.
Conclusion This is the funniest book I've read all year, so I really could not recommend this book more. I read it for a Halloween-related reading challenge in a discord server and I feel kind of lucky that I did, because I don't think that I could have read a better book for that challenge than this one. I don't think anyone would have satisfied me like this. I hope you guys pick this up, because I would love for it to get some much-deserved attention. The book currently has 694 ratings on Goodreads; can we get it to at least 700, if not more?
Goodreads | Amazon: Kindle Unlimited | Audible (Plus)
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2021.10.21 05:45 Elixirinversion Resources for Roux (YouTube)

Could you all add to the list.
The list(in no relevant order):

  1. Kian Mansour
  2. CriticalCubing
  3. Kavin Tangtartharakul
  4. Zhouheng Sun
  5. Godcubing
  6. Shadow Slice
  7. iSwearImKarl
  8. Waffo
  9. teoidus
  10. SpeedCubeReview
Note: By resources i mean youtubers who make at least slightly advanced helpful videos and not just the basic tutorials. There are many fast roux solvers but most of their videos are just ao5, PBs and an occasional hasty reconstruction/example solve. Thanks.
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For those who do read reversals, how do y'all interpret the two of cups in reverse directly followed by the sun card in a love reading?
Querent asked if their "person" thought they would be together someday and the two of cups in reverse popped up which I interpreted as their "person" believing they're incompatible. (Especially when reading the previous cards when the querent asked how this same person felt about them and the 2 of pentacles reversed, 9 of cups reversed and king of swords reversed were revealed.) But then, the sun came directly after the two of cups in reverse and I had to pause for a minute and I got lost.
(The sun was not in reverse for clarification.)
Any advice is much appreciated.
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