2021.10.25 11:48 Lumpy-Ad7529 Advice Needed
Hi All, I have an issue and am very confused/stressed about it. My bf and I have been dating for last 10 months. He is a very nice man, an amazing listener and really comforts me a lot whenever am stressed. However, his goodness is mostly only till the time his schedule/lifestyle is not affected. For example, if I tell him to do something for me out of his usual schedule/comfort zone, he wouldn't even consider the demand and straight away dismiss it. He is not ready to give me a gift that he doesn't like, even if its something that I would love to have (this is irrespective of price. I have never asked any expensive thing from him). In last one year, its always been me who has taken out time from my schedule and met him. It was always me who managed my work and comfort just to meet him or talk to him. Also, he is very stubborn when it comes to changing his opinions about something. Its very difficult to make him understand that we both are different individuals and I might have a different perspective from him. He would understand different views and perspectives till the time its not concerned with him. But the moment I ask him to improve any of his behavioral patterns, he becomes defensive. Not that he is aggressive but he will simply keeps giving reasons for his behavior and try to prove me that he is right. Also, he has a habit of pointing out negative aspects too much. For ex. he agrees I have 90% good qualities, but he mostly points out only the 10% bad things. I am taking efforts to improve these as well. But honestly, I am so frustrated by these actions of his, that I am always annoyed and anxious these days. Its putting too much pressure on me. I really love him a lot and I try helping him going out of my way and out of my comfort zone. After every fight, I try to make it up to him, always. He didn't even take much efforts on my birthday. He certainly has some good qualities like he ensures I eat well, he genuinely cares about my health, showers affection with lots of hugs/kisses/holing hands, etc. But I am too frustrated by the other aspects of his behavior and hence we have been fighting a lot recently. I too have some drawbacks. I started giving an emotional reaction to everything and I have anxiety. So I am taking therapy and actions for that. But out of frustration, 2 days back I told him that we both need to work on our relationship, or else it will fail. I told him clearly that he has added more negativity to my life than before. I also told him that I understand I am at fault too and hence I am taking efforts from my end too to make this work. Now am confused if I did the right thing by giving him such an ultimatum to change his behavior or not?
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2021.10.25 11:48 darthvader666uk Valheim Mistland News And Other Future Updates
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2021.10.25 11:48 szevlin Which filament is better suited for car parts?
I have PLA+ on hand right now, Will it endure the heat enough to not melt, and endure the UV in a car if I anneal the parts? Or do I need to buy ASA or some other type of filament?
New to 3d printing, I have a Ender 3 V2.
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2021.10.25 11:48 alkaline-batteries Could I legally start a business whose entire purpose is just to employ people who have the same name as me?
Suppose my name was Craig. I start a business named Craig, inc, whose purpose is to spread Craig awareness and sell Craig merchandise. To this end my company employs only people whose first name is Craig.
Ordinarily this could be seen as a form of implied discrimination because the demographics of people named Craig could be reliably assumed to be one gender, one ethnicity, one of a handful of nationalities, and probably not of a wide variety of religions too.
But could the extremely Craig-focused nature of my business qualify the name as a bona fide occupational requirement that would make the supposed discrimination legal?
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2021.10.25 11:48 Either_Distance1440 Job told me I was hired prematurely
Have to vent about this. Had a tryout for a really solid job relative to my skills and resume, it paid far better than average and was also really close by (I live in a city where it sucks to commute). I did fine, the manager told me they loved my attitude and that they wanted to hire me. I agree and celebrate the next day, including telling a bunch of people I know and buying a few things for myself. For perspective this job would have been the most I had ever made.
The next morning I get an email that there was actually another candidate and that I shouldn’t come in. They said they would let me know but I’m almost positive that this other per was someone with a direct connection to the owner or manager so they got the job. To make matters worse I shoot myself in the foot and respond somewhat unprofessionally, although I’m pretty sure the decision had already been made and it didn’t really matter.
I’m extremely used to getting to the final round of a job application and not getting it, even after everything seemed great and I think they want to hire me. I’m not at all used to being told I’ve got the job and then had that yanked away from me about 36 hours later. It’s so, so much worse than the first scenario. It’s an emotional experience I really wouldn’t wish upon anyone and it’s one of the worst moments in my life so far that doesn’t have to do with someone dying. I can try and keep things in perspective and understand that I can still find another good job at some point hopefully. But holy fuck am I beyond disappointed.
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2021.10.25 11:48 CaledoniaHeart91 Lucy and Zlatko ...
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2021.10.25 11:48 blueprint_01 Leather Upholstery for chairs?
2021.10.25 11:48 derin105 Sending Avax from crypto.com to metamask avax question
So I get 2 options to withdrawl avax to my metmask wallet on crypto.com app. it says AVAX withdrawal or AVAXC withdrawal. which network do i choose to be able to send avax to my metamask to convert to time?
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2021.10.25 11:48 OsborneKnives Butt shot of the Camper model
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2021.10.25 11:48 Darknight2496 I blame whoever put the idea of Medusa being the OG Bayonetta in my head for this
2021.10.25 11:48 Gelfington Has Mystara been promoted with 5E
Some background here; I accidentally got into an unexpectedly heated argument from someone when I told them (in real life) that Mystara was a "local" phenomenon, with no power beyond the solar system and its corresponding planes. Wow, didn't expect such a strong reaction -- apparently Mystara is multiversal now, reaching to every corner of existence, and any other gods of magic are mere servants to her "weave." I don't have any 5e material so I can't just look it up, but, has Mystara been promoted with 5E? I mean, does that mean that any other current or (potential) future settings' gods like Krynn, Greyhawk, Eberonn, Tal'Dorei all are subject to her? The story changes that's going to imply are huge. I can just see the people of those worlds wondering why their magic was interrupted if something happened to a goddess they'd never even heard of. It's going to create some strange stories. I wonder if Ao cast down the Greyhawk and Krynn gods too, during the time of troubles, and we just didn't get a novel about it?
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2021.10.25 11:48 Almerious This is a moment that marks my personal history with this game!
2021.10.25 11:48 brnhx Easy Questions / Beginners Thread (Week of 2021-10-25)
Hey /elm! Let's answer your questions and get you unstuck. No question is too simple; if you're confused or need help with anything at all, please ask.
Other good places for these types of questions:
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2021.10.25 11:48 adithedaddy Baby Harmony Listed By CMC and CG is Making a HUGE Reveal | Big Announcement at 1800 UTC 🚀
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2021.10.25 11:48 Dandyflyswatter 5 changes I am hoping for: A Radiant Player's Wishlist
Hey all :)
Here are 5 things I would like to see changed in Valorant.
I must say that for the most part Valorant is balanced pretty well. Nevertheless, I do think certain abilities need to be tweaked whilst others should be swapped out for something entirely different. There is also some discussion about the new agent set to release soon, 'Deadeye'.
I'd love to hear from you guys, let me know what you'd like to see different in Valorant.
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2021.10.25 11:48 lejalapeno Hero MAX takes super stable video FYI.
2021.10.25 11:48 needheadphoneadvice1 Just bought my new headphones Cooler Master MH751 and the volume is low and sound muffled
The MH752 were out of stock (they are USB) but the MH751 were in stock so I bought them instead thinking there is no difference, but once i plugged them in my max volume sounds like 30% and sounds are muffled I can barely hear specific sounds, could this be a problem with 3.5mm, if so I can't buy their DAC separately and would a simple usb audio adapter suffice or is this a software problem altogether?
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