2021.10.24 10:53 Artisticslap Biosocial theory and stupid internet drama
So I'm basically bullied by 4-5 people on a server. They get angry about my general way of speaking (writing) and then feel like they can insult me and then they also randomly say something shitty. That is basically it, there is a lot more nuance there but it's no use talking about it here. A therapist gave me a a sheet of paper of biosocial theory and it fits here; I don't think I'm doing anything wrong and they think what they do is justified, so by default there will be problems.
Example: "I think your opinion is stupid, because ---" "well you're an asshole". The way I see it is that he thinks I called him stupid, which is not the case and he think using an ad hominem is justfied, and in debates they are always uncalled for and a sign of him running out of real arguments. But, he probably doesn't think about the debating rules, right? The common nominators with the people who insult me are having low self-esteem, being unhappy and that they are generally bad debators. I think they just don't like being challenged and see it as a threat, if that makes sense.
I've said that if I were the problem, I would have problems with more people and I don't have this problem irl, so something essential is not present when I type. I generally talk in the same way with everyone and have good debates with people who don't take my criticism personally. I'm low-key sad that I don't outright insult people back because I get treated as if I did but atleast I can think that I'm being the bigger person. The way I'm acting is starting to resemble my relationship with my ex, where I would let him just say whatever horrible things to me and found pride in withstanding that. What an idiot I was.
What really insults me is that people say that I am not self aware. I've asked what it is exactly that I am not aware of and they just say I start fights. After I have said what I have written here in the first paragraph. Other people just say something vague, so it feels like they don't know either and want to feel superior in some way. Frankly, I feel like I'm surrounded by idiots there and it's ironic that I'm not the one who thinks in black and white here. I don't want to/can't leave, but I can take a break now.
Even though there is generally nothing to be done, because me and the other people just don't fit, I'd be interested if you have had any similiar situations and if you have overcome them somehow. I saw a video where a man demostrated that being nice to the bully made them stop, but I don't think it would work here, because writing lacks tone and people would just claim I'm being sarcastic or something.
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2021.10.24 10:53 brandyaidenluv That's not my name
Reading a post about customers that call you by name are usually assholes sparked a trigger for me. Calling me by the wrong name.
We wear name tags. Our names are plainly written in what corporate deems the easiest to read font.
Someone in corporate decided to put our legal names on our name tags. This sparked an outrage for several of us that go by something other than out legal name. Our DM found out many of us were upset about it for various reasons and showed us how to circumvent corporate policy by using corporate diversity policy. A week later, 15 of us had new name tags with our preferred name on them, along with changing our names when receipts print out.
So it was about 2 weeks of having legal names showing to the public.
Cue the one bitch that caught my real name on there for that short time. She latched onto that like a lifeline. When I corrected her, she informed me she's known my grandma since before I was even born (true) and she knows good and well that NO ONE has "EVER* called me Brandy instead of Brandalynn and she's going to call my grandma and tell her how disrespectful I am being. (I'm 50 years old...go ahead and call my grandma.)
I did finally get her to stop by turning it back on her. Her mother's name is Mary. She named her 3 daughters Mary Sue, Mary Anne, and Mary Kaye. They went by their middle names. So I just started calling her Mary instead of her middle name until she finally quit calling me Brandalynn and went back to Brandy like I have been known as since day 2 of my life.
I do have another customer that calls me BRENDA. We've turned it into a game at work. He comes in every day at almost the exact time. He makes a beeline for me, no matter if I'm at the service desk or on a register or just floor supervisor. All of my coworkers are in on it. They take turns coming around when he shows up and making a point to call me Brandy several times in front of him. He still will repeatedly call me Brenda several times during the whole interaction. One of the boys even loudly asked me in front of him "BRANDY, when did you change your name to Brenda?" and the guy still said "Thanks, Brenda, have a good evening." I have a $25 Visa gift card in my wallet for the person that finally gets him to realize he's calling me by the wrong name, but I'm pretty sure he's doing just to be an asshole at this point.
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2021.10.24 10:52 Dem827 Do I need to carry my tax stamp when shooting at the range/transporting suppressed rifles and pistols?
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2021.10.24 10:52 ljamesesteves Hopesfire, and Marian the Dawnbringer
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2021.10.24 10:52 BennysXe Gor Rok and Krok Gar
Can you tell me what the different playstyles of these two are, and maybe what there role in Lore is? I only recently realized that they are two different LLs
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