2021.09.23 03:41 Obesetexan Dr K, how do I break my cycle of loneliness and anxiety?
Lately it seems like I can't win socially. For context I work 2 days a week (weekends) as a bartender. It forces me to be social and its helped break down a lot of social barriers I had trouble breaking down for a long time.
However, i'm stuck in a negative loop of being too anxious / nervous to go outside and do something, yet at the same time for the other 5 days a week I am stuck inside the house and hating every minute of my existence because I feel like I am missing out on life, such as going out drinking with friends or finding someone I start a relationship with.
I'm either miserable and lonely, or out in public and feeling nervous and sick to my stomach about social interactions and how people are going to perceive me and my insecurities in public. I already know the answer to this question is to get out the house and slowly learn to live with my anxiety, but it's so hard. Is that really all there is to it?
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2021.09.23 03:41 lithalweapon Get burned Jimmyboy
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2021.09.23 03:41 B1ZZARRE Best Keyboardist?
2021.09.23 03:41 No_Twist_3079 Capital Tax Gains QUESTION
For all you wrinkle brains here I would like to know how this exactly works. So far I know that when you hold a stock for over a year it becomes a long-term position. Therefore, you pay less taxes. That's where my question comes in. I owned AMC since March 2nd but I have kept adding to my portfolio til this day. Do all my shares becomes long term after March 2nd or only the ones I purchased that significant day?
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2021.09.23 03:41 MrLazyTiger Is it worth being an Azata if I care about being strong myself and DON'T care about making allies strong? Azata worth it if I wanna deal lots of dmg and be hard to kill? Are superpowers like Favorable Magic,Zippy Magic,Fast Healing,Supersonic Speed good enough to make Azata worth it for dmg builds?
Not asking for practical reasons, but sinply because I like knowing that my character could beat other peoples' characters. That and I like Azata lore, but still, I'm only picking it if it can be great at what I want: being great at destroying enemies and not getting destroyed by them.
Won't say no to free support spells, but does the rest make Azata a powerful damage dealer etc? Are superpowers a significant enough power boost for the Azata itself compared to what other Mythics are buffed with?
I plan to skip Life Bonding Friendship and instead get the above mentionee 4 superpowers to make myself powerful, instead of my team mates. Worth it?
As a draconic AT, I plan to blast and nuke enemies to oblivion while the superpowers double Chain Lightning and make all my damage spells more effective, while also making me harder to hit and harder to kill. + I consider Aivu as part of the Azata's power.
With things like this in mind, is Azata worth taking if my goal is pumping out high damage per round and being hard to kill? Or am I significantly gimping myself compared to other players if I don't take Lich (etc) instead?
Thank you all so so so much:)
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2021.09.23 03:41 Snugchick420 Can’t find it bro
I can’t find a certain clip and I’m frustrated. Let me describe it, I’m hoping this forum can help me.
Finn runs off Into the forest, he’s gone for a very long time adventuring on his own. No dialogue, covered by music. He returns only after destroying his clothes from his long journey. There’s a scene of him sitting in a cave, waiting for the rain to stop. He returns back to the tree house and is greeted by Jake making a sandwich.
Any ideas my dudes?
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2021.09.23 03:41 Theonedtown Blue Dream Auto Day 94
2021.09.23 03:41 LoneWolf1123 Here’s a super super rough draft of a One Piece browser game that I want to make. Anyone know how I should approach this and using what medium should I make this. Questions about planned game mechanics and comments regarding suggestions and improvements are very welcome!
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2021.09.23 03:41 xbigfoot420x Things Are Just Getting Out Of Control
2021.09.23 03:41 Fast-Ad-6895 Marvel on Beats 🔥
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2021.09.23 03:41 GucciGangBlizz The R6EsportsEU account tweets the games 3 hours before they start…
It was never this bad the last stages, there’s probably a lot of people who don’t even know the games are on, I forget that there’s games sometimes, and if it wasn’t for Liquipedia having the games we wouldn’t know the matchups, there should be a tweet of the games right after the playday before is over, the day before the playday, and a few hours before the playday imo
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2021.09.23 03:41 murdermoose124 I've been trying so hard to improve myself but it feels like it's all for nothing when he gets frustrated and says he's sick of me.
This is going to be a long ramble so please bear with me.
TLDR: My long term boyfriend gets repeatedly frustrated with me for neglecting tasks at home or forgetting to do things (I accidentally forgot about some chicken and we had to throw it out). I'm always busy and overwhelmed and feel like he's expecting too much from me and doing too little to help but I'm having a hard time figuring out if it's a "me problem" or if he really is being a jerk. I obviously can't cover every detail here but will answer questions.
I (28F) have been with my boyfriend (31M) for just over 9 years, we have been living together for almost 4. We have 5 pets together (3 lizards and 2 dogs) that are basically stand in children and I'm worried that they're the only thing keeping the relationship together. I'll add that I don't know if he feels the same way about that.
I was diagnosed with ADHD at a very young age but didn't start learning about it or taking medication until a year ago. I've more or less been able to manage it my whole life. I chock this up to living with my parents and their support, as well as the strict schedules and constant "on the go" from school. Since leaving college and moving out with my boyfriend my ADHD has gotten so much worse and I finally talked to my doctor about medications and help last year. The medication has been a life saver honestly, but I'm still really struggling. Life has become too routine, I have so many responsibilities, work is stressful, covid is a thing, I'm angry at the world and I just feel like I'm sinking and struggling to keep my head above water. Where this becomes a relationship issue is that I slack on things that need to be done at home.
I don't neglect my home responsibilities on purpose. I leave for work in the morning and get home around 6 or 7 on average (I've been trying to wake up earlier and get home sooner but that's another issue). By the time I get home I'm so done with the day that I have great difficulty motivating myself to do anything, also the meds start wearing off at this point. My memory and object permanence problems also exacerbate these issues. I often put something down, forget about it, and become blind to it. On any given day I'll come home to laundry that needs to be done, my clutter (things, not trash) that I scatter all over the apartment, and piles of dishes. Where I also have a hard time is that my boyfriend doesn't work and hasn't since before the pandemic. He doesn't do these chores a lot of the time because it's my mess. I understand this and know it's frustrating for him, but I was literally just working for a minimum 8 hours. He gets frustrated and mad at me multiple times a week that I haven't cleaned something I said I would. Most of the time I just forget to. What prompted this post is that a few days ago I made a nice dinner and put the leftover (raw) chicken in the fridge intending to put it in the freezer once I was done cooking. I forgot about this chicken and about 8 chicken thighs had to be thrown out. This isn't the first time this has happened but it's not like it happens often, quite rarely actually. He had also just washed the dishes from that dinner that I said I'd clean but didn't (I understand this one), I had also just gotten home and had my first meal of the day while he did them. He flipped out and said "honestly, I'm so sick of you". All I could do was finish my meal, clean up, and now I'm just hiding in the bathroom being sad.
There's a lot more that he gets annoyed with but this is the most frequent topic. I just don't know what to do anymore. I've put so much time into learning about ADHD and how to manage it. I've been on medication for a year now. I've tried so many different things to help manage myself. The only thing I think I have left to try is therapy, but there's no way I can afford it.
I made magnets for the fridge that indicate the food we have, what needs to be eaten soon, and what we're out of. I often forget to update their positions but he doesn't do it either. There's also a paper pad next to it for meal planning. Whiteboards all over the apartment with markers stuck next to them to write reminders or task checklists. I sometimes become blind to them or forget to use them, but he doesn't use them either to help me. I've tried to make household chores into games. Tried dividing up tasks evenly. Made a large calendar and white board to keep track of all the bills and important dates. Tried organising the place so things we need are within sight. Got rid of a lot of stuff. Reminders on my phone, got a Fitbit and linked notifications to it. Got a reusable planner. I could probably go on forever regarding the things I've tried, nothing sticks, but he also doesn't really help me and if he does it's not for long. I think he feels like my problems shouldn't be his responsibility.
I'm starting to become resentful and have begun to wonder if this relationship is beneficial to either one of us. I work all day while he plays video games and takes advantage of his employee insurance (I feel like this is going to come back to bite us in the ass), then he gets upset when I get home tired and ask him to make dinner or do laundry or mention that I don't want to take the dogs out this particular evening (I have to do it because its my turn and he did it earlier). His patience with me is clearly running thin but I don't think he understands how little time I have to myself if I try to get everything done.
A lot of the time I see posts where non ADHD partners are frustrated because they feel like they're in charge of all the responsibilities and feel like a parent. I've started feeling like I have to be in charge of everything and parent myself, it's incredibly draining. I really don't know if all of this is my own fault and he's justified in his frustrations or what. I apologise for things and he says that I apologise all the time but still haven't done anything. If I get mad at him he gives a reason why he's mad at me. If I cry he waves it off or gets frustrated that I'm crying. If he pokes fun at me and pushes it too far and I yell then I'm dramatic. Am I too sensitive? Is there anything I can do to help this situation? Is there anything I haven't tried in order to stay on top of responsibilities at home? I really don't know what to do. I know this post makes him seem kind of like an asshole, he really isn't and I truly do love him, but man, I worry.
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2021.09.23 03:41 Mighty_L_LORT Michigan budget bill bans state COVID-19 vaccine mandates, many local school mask rules
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2021.09.23 03:41 burritoking65 $10.10 for brisket?!?
2021.09.23 03:41 dobbyisafreepup So much losing
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2021.09.23 03:41 Durtytimmy69 UCLA
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2021.09.23 03:41 Heyitsthatdude69 3rd party client cheating and harassment - how to handle?
Title pretty much says it as a TL;DR. Members of a particular toxic clan have been harassing a streamer I watch for days on end. They have some sort of 3rd party cheat client that allows them to track world based on RSN or something else, because they can constantly track even when world isn't shown. Multiple attempts to report them for targeting/harassing have led to absolutely nothing. Is there any other avenue to take?
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2021.09.23 03:41 seef-not-beef I cannot exit Whittleton Creek
I have completed Charbroiled and No Smoking Area, and the narrorator(?) even told me to find an exit. However, the game wants me to find clues about a robe? Please help me exit this level.
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2021.09.23 03:41 Mr_Videodrome_Clown CLASSY GIRL AND RASPUTIN
2021.09.23 03:41 Interesting-Bed-4636 Any guidance in terms of love and career or anything else for that matter.. I've been spiritually awakened for about a year now and am on the journey of a life time. Sometimes I just feel so lost. Thanks!
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2021.09.23 03:41 erik8817 Spider 14 and clan boss help
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2021.09.23 03:41 Dobross74477 Refuting a common COVID-19 vaccine misconception: there are differences in the spike protein produced by the mRNA vaccines which are designed to protect against antibody-dependent enhancement and distinguish it from the cytotoxic spike protein produced by SARS-CoV-2 [listen at 19:58]
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2021.09.23 03:41 PieRat343 I need help making a Behavior account
Hey guys I'm trying to make a behavior account to link my Xbox and steam accounts, but when I tried to make the account it said this email is already in use. Thinking this is weird I went to the "forgot password" section, but upon entering my email it says why email/password is incorrect. Why is this and how do I fix this?
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