Having trouble with being myself vs "family values"

2021.09.26 08:57 Pokimiss Having trouble with being myself vs "family values"

Sorry this will read as a "off my chest" post a bit. Grew up in a conservative family, I am not out to my extended family. Immediate family doesn't respect pronouns or my preferred name except my mom. 1) Mom is telling me to come down to Thanksgiving so she can see me. 2) Sister says I'm selfish for being trans and asking her to use a preferred name and pronouns. Her excuse is "I only know you as my brother, give me a break and don't be so selfish". Toxic relationship with my sister most of my life, she takes holiday and birthday gifts but doesn't give any, lots of swearing at me and verbal abuse. 3) I grew up with my parents guilting me saying I need to have better family values and that I should do it for the family.
At this point that feel to me like family values are living only within the bounds of a traditional cis-het-normative world. I feel, especially after covid lockdown, I feel less and less willing to force myself to do things that are abrasive to my mental health. I don't like that I'm being told that I don't care about people and I'm selfish. I am afraid of visiting for Thanksgiving because I will be seeing me sister who is so toxic. I am OK seeing my mom on a different week. I feel my relationship with my sister is like a blood feud at this point.
Tl:dr I am stuck between living my true self, the guilt of not living true family values, and fear of sister and her invalidating behavior. Don't know why maybe because I grew up with a lot of this "family pressure" since a young age.
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2021.09.26 08:57 Char_Cole School is driving me insane during quarantine and I don't know what to do

I've been in quarantine for 3 weeks due to covid, and I feel like im Going insane. It's my first year of highschool and they assign so much pointless shit, or shit that is way to personal for me that I'm forced to do, like write a full essay on my life and everything in it, I fucking hate it and Ive barely done any these last three weeks, not that I'm not trying to do it I just can't, my mom is threatening my jiujitsu classes the only thing In life I really really enjoy. The only thing I enjoy is on the line and I still can't do It, please just what do I do.
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2021.09.26 08:57 sman7771 i’ll never step onto a cruise again

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i was pretty bummed because i was planning this trip for months but yesterday we ended up just going to disney and today we went on a casino cruise.
the cruise was 7 hours long and i felt like i was in hell. I do not do well on boats. The swaying back and forth was literal torture and i had to endure 7 hours of it. as soon as i stepped on was when i realised i made a grave mistake.
The 7 hours was full of popping dramamine and sitting down focusing on anything but the nausea. I don’t think i can ever step foot on a cruise again. I envy the people who don’t get sick on boats, i can’t imagine going on a full length week long cruise.
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2021.09.26 08:57 skyk112 Moving to Europe. Sell my PC for laptop or ship my PC?

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2021.09.26 08:57 ThaBigSKi Understanding the online components. Do roads save ?

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So if I finish a road, is it forever done in my world? Or any other structure for that matter.
Trying to help out as much as I can but I want to make sure my world stays up to date when I log back in after putting in many supply runs the day prior
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And like all the other generations before Generation Alpha, they will then end up hating all the previous generations too. In the end, nobody wins.
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